File for Divorce Jointly and As Pro Se Parties For a More Peaceful and Less Expensive Divorce

Filing for divorce jointly and as a pro se litigant means that the couple who wants to be divorced files for divorce jointly using one set of court documents and neither person hires an attorney to battle over their assets and possibly their children and represent him/her in court.  Pro se means by yourself in Latin.

                                                        peace dove from free clip art website

Filing for divorce jointly and pro se will enable your divorce to be more cooperative than conflictual and, therefore, less stressful.  Moreover, it will make your postdivorce life a bit more harmonious, which will be very helpful if you continue to share a business, friends, or children.

                                                    save money

Filing for divorce jointly and pro se will also enable the couple to jointly save thousands to tens of thousands of dollars.   ChristieLegal charges $75* per hour, whereas an attorney costs $200 to $400 per hour.  If the couple isn’t filing for divorce jointly and pro se, then each of them is paying $200+ per hour for his/her attorney’s services.  Therefore, ChristieLegal would charge the couple 1/6 or less than each of them lawyering up would cost!

If there are a few asset or child custody issues that you folks haven’t made a decision on, then Christie can help you resolve them by explaining what your options are and helping you decide what option is the best by answering your questions.  Christie could also refer you to a mediator who will do the same at a rate of $100 to $300 per hour or refer you to an attorney who do the same and then provide you with legal advice on which option you should choose and why at a rate of $200 to $400 per hour.

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Filing for divorce jointly and pro se is fairly simple.

  1. Christie will write the divorce documents that you must file with the court.
  2. Christie will explain to you how to file the documents and prepare you for the court process.
  3. You will file the documents with family court.
  4. If you don’t have joint children, then, in all likelihood, the judge will review and then sign your divorce documents in his/her chambers within two weeks of you mailing them to the court.
  5. If you have joint children, then you folks will appear in court for a default hearing at which the judge will likely ask you a few questions regarding what your divorce documents state regarding the custody, parenting time, and financial support of your joint children, usually only your joint minor children.  Then, the judge will either decide at that time to approve your divorce documents or review and then sign them in his/her chambers within a few days.
  6. Within a few days thereafter, you will receive a notice that your divorce has been finalized and instructions regarding how to obtain a copy of your signed divorce documents via postal mail.


* Christie offers a 20% discount to low-income folks, college students, Service members and veterans, musicians and other artistic folks, teachers, law enforcement and corrections officers, social workers, and mental health professionals.


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